The acclaimed author of the groundbreaking bestseller Schoolgirls reveals the dark side of pink and pretty: the rise of the girlie-girl, she warns, is not that innocent.
Pink and pretty or predatory and hardened, sexualized girlhood influences our daughters from infancy onward, telling them that how a girl looks matters more than who she is. Somewhere between the exhilarating rise of Girl Power in the 1990s and today, the pursuit of physical perfection has been recast as a source—the source—of female empowerment. And commercialization has spread the message faster and farther, reaching girls at ever-younger ages.
But, realistically, how many times can you say no when your daughter begs for a pint-size wedding gown or the latest Hannah Montana CD? And how dangerous is pink and pretty anyway—especially given girls' successes in the classroom and on the playing field? Being a princess is just make-believe, after all; eventually they grow out of it. Or do they? Does playing Cinderella shield girls from early sexualization—or prime them for it? Could today's little princess become tomorrow's sexting teen? And what if she does? Would that make her in charge of her sexuality—or an unwitting captive to it?
Those questions hit home with Peggy Orenstein, so she went sleuthing. She visited Disneyland and the international toy fair, trolled American Girl Place and Pottery Barn Kids, and met beauty pageant parents with preschoolers tricked out like Vegas showgirls. She dissected the science, created an online avatar, and parsed the original fairy tales. The stakes turn out to be higher than she—or we—ever imagined: nothing less than the health, development, and futures of our girls. From premature sexualization to the risk of depression to rising rates of narcissism, the potential negative impact of this new girlie-girl culture is undeniable—yet armed with awareness and recognition, parents can effectively counterbalance its influence in their daughters' lives.
Cinderella Ate My Daughter is a must-read for anyone who cares about girls, and for parents helping their daughters navigate the rocky road to adulthood.
My Take
Well after reading this I am glad I have a little boy! This is a really interesting read, no doubt about it. Orenstein forces us to take a look at our little girls these days and ask, "How did we let this happen?". In addition to pointing out the errors of our ways, she suggests ways that we can change and prevent the downward spiral of little girls in the future. Even if you don't have kids this would be an interesting look into the culture of little girls and how it has changed, as well as why.
Labels: female author, non-fiction Tuesday, May 31, 2011 | 2 Comments
Posted by Holly'My tendency to make up stories and lie compulsively for the sake of my own amusement takes up a good portion of my day and provides me with a peace of mind not easily attainable in this economic climate.' - Chelsea Handler, from Chapter 10 of Chelsea Chelsea Bang Bang It's no lie: Chelsea Handler loves to smoke out 'dumbassness,' the condition people suffer from that allows them to fall prey to her brand of complete and utter nonsense. Friends, family, co-workers - they've all been tricked by Chelsea into believing stories of total foolishness and into behaving like total fools. Luckily, they've lived to tell the tales and, for the very first time, write about them.
My Take
The stories in the book are written by the people closest to Chelsea and the most battered by her never-ending pranks and practical jokes.
The authors include
Johnny Kansas- a Chelsea Lately producer
Stephanie Stebling- a close friend
Heather McDonald- comedian and writer for Chelsea Lately
Roy Handler- brother
Brad Wollack- comedian and writer for Chelsea Lately
Amber Mazzola
Josh Wolf- comedian and writer for Chelsea Lately
Shoshonna Handler- sister
Eva Magdelenski- Chelsea's assistant
Amy Meyer
Glen Handler- brother
Chunk- Chelsea's spoiled dog
There is also a hilarious chapter dedicated to the censorship emails regarding the show and what needs to be taken out. It was great.
I really enjoyed this book. It was funny to hear stories from other peoples perspectives but overall Chelsea tells it better. The picture her closest friends and family paint of Chelsea is bittersweet. They a talk of how generous and caring she is, while at the same time ruthless and at times demeaning. I think she would be an impossible person to be around, but for some reason it works for them. They must have a good sense of humor.
Fans of other Chelsea books will like this one as well. It's a quick read with a lot of laughs. Looking forward to what Chelsea comes up with next!
Labels: family, female author, humor, memoir, non-fiction, reviews Wednesday, May 25, 2011 | 2 Comments
Posted by HollyYoung Elly's world is shaped by those who inhabit it: her loving but maddeningly distractible parents; a best friend who smells of chips and knows exotic words like 'slag'; an ageing fop who tapdances his way into her home, a Shirley Bassey impersonator who trails close behind; lastly, of course, a rabbit called God. In a childhood peppered with moments both ordinary and extraordinary, Elly's one constant is her brother Joe.
Twenty years on, Elly and Joe are fully grown and as close as they ever were. Until, that is, one bright morning and a single, earth-shattering event that threatens to destroy their bond for ever.
Spanning four decades and moving between suburban Essex, the wild coast of Cornwall and the streets of New York, this is a story about childhood, eccentricity, the darker side of love and sex, the pull and power of family ties, loss and life. More than anything, it's a story about love in all its forms.
Labels: blog tour, compelling, reviews, tear jerker Thursday, May 19, 2011 | 3 Comments
Posted by AshleyWith her knack for being in trouble's way, Sookie witnesses the firebombing of Merlotte's, the bar where she works. Since Sam Merlotte is now known to be two-natured, suspicion falls immediately on the anti-shifters in the area. Sookie suspects otherwise, but her attention is divided when she realizes that her lover Eric Northman and his "child" Pam are plotting to kill the vampire who is now their master. Gradually, Sookie is drawn into the plot-which is much more complicated than she knows...
My take
I was somewhat bored with this book. The action segments were brief, predictable, and not very detailed. We learn a bit more about Sookie and her special gift, although the more we learn the more questions crop up leaving me still wondering what is going on with her. Eric still seems to be out of sorts in this book. He has changed so much from when we first met him that I no longer find him to be much of a vampire at all. He reminds me a lot of the Eric we met when he lost his memory, useless and mushy. I would really like less redundancy out of the series. It is falling into the same trap that the Evanovich novels fell into, which leads me to think this series might need to wrap it up on a high note and call it a day.
Labels: critical review, female author, fiction, mystery, reviews, romance, series, sookie stackhouse, supernatural Sunday, May 15, 2011 | 0 Comments
Posted by HollySomething strange is happening in Ellerton High. Phoenix is the fourth teenager to die within a year. His street fight stabbing follows the deaths of Jonas, Summer and Arizona in equally strange and sudden circumstances. Rumours of ghosts and strange happenings rip through the small community as it comes to terms with shock and loss. Darina,Phoenix's grief-stricken girlfriend, is on the verge. She can't escape her intense heartache, or the impossible apparitions of those that are meant to be dead. And all the while the sound of beating wings echo inside her head ! And then one day Phoenix appears to Darina. Ecstatic to be reunited, he tells her about the Beautiful Dead. Souls in limbo, they have been chosen to return to the world to set right a wrong linked to their deaths and bring about justice. Beautiful, superhuman and powerful, they are marked by a 'death mark' -- a small tattoo of angel's wings.Phoenix tells her that the sound of invisible wings beating are the millions of souls in limbo, desperate to return to earth.Darina's mission is clear: she must help Jonas, Summer,Arizona, and impossibly, her beloved Phoenix, right the wrong linked to their deaths to set them free from limbo so that they can finally rest in peace. Will love conquer death? And if it does, can Darina set it free?
My thoughts:
Could not put it down. This series sucked me in, and I hate that there's an end in sight, and am actually very surprised that I adored this as much as I did. But the story is so fresh in a market so oversaturated with the supernatural and the unexplained. Darina is a hard girl to not love, and the pain of losing so many she knew is very raw. If you have the chance, grab this awesome series and settle in for a fantastic weekend where you won't need the TV, since these are so well written and creative - you can see the movie in your mind.
Labels: reviews, series spotlight, supernatural, teen reads, young adult Saturday, May 14, 2011 | 0 Comments
Posted by AshleyMy thoughts: It's really hard now to compare the books to the show, because it seems like the only thing they have in common by book 3 is the basics of the personalities of the four main characters. On the show, they're becoming close again, whereas they are four separate entities entirely in the books, coming together only to inquire as to whether they're all being stalked by A. My favorite character in the books is Hanna, but Aria (Lucy Hale) is my favorite onscreen.
Labels: book to tv, series, young adult Wednesday, May 11, 2011 | 0 Comments
Posted by AshleyMy thoughts:I have to admit that this book pulled me in a little further to enjoying the series, and have to say that I love the series tie in book covers. While the original covers certainly were attention creators, I much prefer the media tie in editions. Also, it didn't take long for the tv series to diverge and split off from its book predecessor. Interesting to see how it will play out and what it means for who A is on the show.
Labels: book to television, series, young adult Tuesday, May 10, 2011 | 0 Comments
Posted by AshleyMy thoughts: Before reading this, or receiving it for review, I have to say something that makes probably zero sense. I was alternately pulled into and put off by the cover of this book. And it still perplexes me when I wonder why the cover puts me off. Normally, I think I would love this cover and yet. So I began reading this with trepidation. At the beginning, the narrator was off-putting. Incredibly so. Very snotty and guarded, it was hard to want to read from the perspective of someone who seemed to have so little regard for not only those not intellectually stimulating enough for her, but also her friends, who it's quite clear fall much closer to what one would normally deem the acquaintance category. And yet, because of the amazing imagery and the great fleshing out and descriptive depth of the secondary characters - I kept at it. I couldn't get enough of the fantastic drawings in my mind that Meier did such a great job putting there. And somewhere along the line, Joy became someone who I was curious about. And then I couldn't put the book down. There are moments in this book that drew my ire, and I can't say I loved the ending, but it is a book that will stay with me and that made me think.
Labels: compelling, reviews Monday, May 9, 2011 | 0 Comments
Posted by AshleyMy thoughts: I picked these up in Borders because of the show my love of Lucy Hale from Privileged. After reading all the reviews and catching the show, I caught the bug and wanted to read the books and see how they compared. The first book of the series caught my attention and piqued my curiosity, so mission accomplished.
Labels: series, young adult | 0 Comments
Posted by AshleyPlucked from obscurity, beautiful Melody Ann Croft is making her way up the industry ladder. But Melody Ann is gone...in her place is "Mac" and with her looks, brains, and drive, she may well be on the brink of becoming America's top model. Suddenly Mac's seeing her name in the tabloids, being wooed by billionaire businessmen...and sharing intimate late-night dinners with movie stars. And she's discovering that the supermodel life isn't all fluff and glamour. It's long hours, hard work, and even harder choices—like choosing to starve or to never work again.
But does Mac have what it takes to be super? Because deep down—behind the perfect body and million-dollar smile—she's still the same hometown Melody Ann she's always been....
My take
Carol Alt obviously has experience in the industry enough to give this book authenticity, and that is in part what makes this such a delicious read! I felt like I really had a view into the life of a model. It was exciting, interesting and unlike anything I expected it to be. "This Year's Model" the first book was a great read, and the sequel was just as good. I would like to learn more about Mac Croft, our covergirl, but it appears that there will not be any more books in this series.
This is an entertaining light read that I highly recommend picking up.
Labels: chick lit, family, fashion, female author, fiction, reviews, series, star reads Wednesday, May 4, 2011 | 0 Comments
Posted by HollyMy take
I am starting to tire of this series in general. It seems to drag at points and I find myself losing interest in the characters and the plot lines. I have always been a fan of Alyson Noels work and am looking forward to how she wraps this up in the final book Everlasting which will be on shelves soon.
Night star gives the reader some insight into the past lives of Ever, Damen and Jude. I found it interesting, although not that much of a revelation. What really captured my attention was the secret part of Summerland that Ever found and took Damen to. The book hints at Ever serving a greater purpose and that she was fated to be a part of this place somehow. I have no idea where this could be going but feel that it could give more significance to the series in general.
I will be reading Everlasting the day it comes out and I hope to really enjoy the way this story wraps up.
The trailer
Excerpt
Chapter 1
Other books in the series
Evermore
Blue Moon
Shadowland
Dark Flame
Night Star
Everlasting-coming soon
Labels: critical review, fantasy, female author, fiction, reviews, romance, series, supernatural, teen reads, young adult Tuesday, May 3, 2011 | 0 Comments
Posted by HollyHere's Penguin's teaser for Jen's first novel, Wish You Were Here, available tomorrow
Check out whether Jen will be in your area soon, because you don't want to miss it! I can't wait to thank her for urging me into the land of Lacoste myself.
Labels: fashion, female author, humor, reviews, teaser Monday, May 2, 2011 | 1 Comments
Posted by AshleyJessa:
To help you get over your trainwreck of an EX, I’ve enclosed 20 envelopes. Each one has a reason why Sean is a jerk and not worth the dirt on your shoes. And each one has an instruction for you to do one un-Jessa-like thing a day. NO CHEATING!
Ciao! -- C
When Jessa catches her boyfriend, Sean, making out with Natalie "The Boob Job" Stone three days before her drama club’s departure to Italy, she completely freaks.
Stuck with a front-row view of Sean and Natalie making out against the backdrop of a country that oozes romance, Jessa promises to follow all of the outrageous instructions in her best friend's care package and open her heart to new experiences.
Enter cute Italian boy stage left.
Jessa had prepared to play the role of humiliated ex-girlfriend, but with Carissa directing her life from afar, it’s finally time to take a shot at being a star.
My thoughts: When I read Kim Culbertson's first novel, Songs for a Teenage Nomad, I knew I'd be on the lookout for her next book. She has stories to tell that strike a chord and resonate. So I was excited when Sourcebooks sent me this one, and I devoured it very quickly. While not nearly as heavy, I enjoyed this one more than the last. It's youth, vibrance, and connection to the audience are on point completely. And she completely captured so many of the friendships during high school, the pain of a young love gone awry, and the excitement of moving on with someone new. Overall a great, fun read with a fantastic message to young girls.
Labels: first look, reviews, teen reads, young adult Sunday, May 1, 2011 | 1 Comments
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